100 ways to make your marriage rock!

I found this and love it!!! There is not one thing on this list that isn't so important in marriage, and I am going to strive to do these more often..

Write him letters

Go on regular date nights

Write his name on lipstick on the bathroom mirror

Revitalize the romance with intimate dates

Pray together

Hide notes in secret places

Go to bed at the same time

Listen to music together-share earbuds

Send him on a scavenger hunt in the house

Buy him gifts he will love

Hide a treat in his glovebox or desk at work

Read the Bible together

Wear shirts that tell the world you love your spouse

Praise your spouse to other people

Let them overhear you

Read a marriage devotional

Porn-proof your home

Be best friends

Sleep in his t-shirts

Look to him to make the big decisions 

Let her make the small ones

Don’t nag him

Put down the seat, pick up your socks for her

Renew your vows privately with whispers and memories

Renew them publicly with cake and bubbly

Fight naked

Tell him you like him

Receive his compliments

Pick your battles

Show her you love her and tell him you respect him

Go away together at least once a year

Frame your wedding vows

Her: Read For Women Only

Hang pictures of the two of you around your house

Kiss in front of your kids

Make his favorite dessert

Have pictures of just the two of you made

Make sex a priority

Spend time apart occasionally

Learn to enjoy something he loves

Surprise each other

Meet him at the door

Dreamstorm

Text each other from across the room

Be accountable to each other

Set reminders on your phone to remember him/her throughout the week

Call him right now and tell him you appreciate him

Be affectionate

Him: Read For Men Only

Leave work and come home early

Wash, vacuum her car. Keep it full of gas.

Give each other romantic coupons

Engage every day in meaningful conversation

Compliment each other

Touch your spouse several times throughout the day

Take one day a month to make your spouse your total focus

Let each other sleep in

Be spontaneous!

Argue fair: avoid these words “you always” and “you never”

Kiss every day

Find tangible ways to serve your mate without complaining

Forgive quickly

Be honest.

But not hurtful

Get on the same page: plan your budget together

Look your best as often as you can

Guard your marriage

Get out of debt (and stay out)

Laugh together

Have a date night in

When your together-BE TOGETHER (take a break from phones, technology, etc)

Talk about your favorite memories together

Tell him he’s sexy just because

Tell her she’s pretty, especially when she’s not feeling it

Make him breakfast in bed

Do her chores for her

Get a couple’s massage or host your own privately

Read a book out loud together

Dance together-soft music (alone) or rocking music with the kids

Bring her/him a favorite drink during the middle of the day

Exercise together-hikes, bike riding, etc

Choose not to be annoyed by an irritating behavior/disappointment

Tell him a secret he doesn’t know about you

Thank your spouse just because, often

Sit on the same side of a booth at a restaurant

Lay in bed together and stare into each other eyes, without talking

Learn something new together-take an art class, cooking lessons, etc

Leave a sweet comment on the Facebook wall

Teach your kids about marriage

Stop what you’re doing, look them in the eye and listen to their answer

Create art together

Support each other’s goals

Know when to talk and when to hush

Consider counseling (even if there’s not conflict)

Doodle his name

Bring her flowers (even when she says they are too expensive)

Wear something he loves

Share furniture-sit in his lap

Fight for your marriage

Remember your spouse rocks-even when they don’t